Term 1, Week 9, 2020
From the Dean of Junior School
Under Pressure: Getting the Balance Right
Mr James Harrison, Dean of Junior School
Back in May, the NSW Education Standards Authority ran its yearly selective high school and opportunity class testing. You may have seen in the mainstream media that there were some sizeable issues with the technology. At the time, I was struck by accounts of the testing fiasco and its impact on the students, in an article in the Sydney Morning Herald on May 26 by Jordan Baker.
Just for a moment, climb inside the head of a nine or 11-year-old sitting this year’s selective education exam.
A heavy responsibility sits on your pint-sized shoulders. You’ve spent years of Saturdays at tutoring, sacrificing chunks of your childhood to prepare for a test that’s desperately important to your parents, and that has consumed vast amounts of your family’s financial and emotional resources. You believe your future rides on whether you do well enough to win a place in a sought-after selective school or opportunity class.
The day arrives. You’re racked with nerves. You cram as you’re driven to the test, like an athlete warming up for an Olympic qualifier. When you arrive, you’re enveloped by chaos. Computers crash, kids are crying, hundreds of frantic adults swarm, riot police push through the crowd, people are shouting orders into loudspeakers and staff search for lost children.
Perhaps worst of all, you worry you’ve messed up the test.
Read more, by clicking the link below:
You might have heard or grown up with the adage, “Nothing valuable is created without pressure” or “A diamond is a chunk of coal that did well under pressure.” Have you considered how pressure affects your child? If we think of pressure being on a continuum with no pressure at one end and unrelenting pressure at the other, where do you sit on that continuum? Does your approach to pressure, mirror your parenting style?
Previously, I have written about the ways parents may define success and how this impacts the way they choose to raise their children. If this sound interesting to you, click here to read that article.
So much of my practice is influenced by thought leaders in my field (I don’t claim to be one of them btw😊). As an avid reader of Canadian social theorist, Malcolm Gladwell, I have previously discussed the value in a student attending an educational institution where they are known and valued. In that 2023 Tara News article linked above, I wrote, “In his book, David and Goliath, Gladwell explores the idea of being a ‘big fish in a small pond’ in relation to American universities. He posits the idea that attending a smaller university rather than one of the larger Ivy League institutions such as Yale, Harvard or Princeton in the United States, means a student can learn and achieve without feeling the weight of inadequacy from being continually compared to other, more highly achieving peers. Gladwell argues that rather than these larger institutions benefitting from healthy competition to motivate its students, the relative lack of competition in the smaller universities means students experience less pressure resulting in a lower drop-out rates and greater reported levels of happiness. It is a human trait to compare ourselves against others and even derive a sense of satisfaction when we know we are doing better than someone else! However, the importance of being known, getting a well-rounded balanced education, and achieving your personal best, cannot be underestimated or over-stated. Indeed, education of the whole child – her mind and her character – is the reason our teachers come to work every day and the reason parents send their daughters to Tara.
Later in David and Goliath, Gladwell examines the challenges faced by children from affluent families, highlighting how excessive wealth can paradoxically create obstacles to happiness and wellbeing. He argues that after a certain point, additional wealth doesn't necessarily translate to better parenting or greater happiness and can even lead to increased pressure and anxiety. Gladwell's work emphasises the need for parents to find a balance between providing support and fostering independence, avoiding the pitfalls of both neglect and over-involvement. It is most certainly a tricky tightrope to walk!
In another of Gladwell's books, Outliers, he explores how parental involvement and pressure can significantly impact a child's development and future success. While this parenting style, characterised by fostering a child's talents and opinions, can be advantageous, it runs the risk of issues like entitlement and a disconnection from the realities of the world.
Sociologist Annette Lareau's concept of ‘concerted cultivation’, popularised by Gladwell, describes a parenting style where parents actively cultivate their children's talents and skills through organised activities and interventions. This approach can provide children with the ability to navigate various environments effectively, which can be beneficial in academic and professional settings; however, the pressure associated with ‘concerted cultivation’ can stem from parents' desire for their children to achieve, often leading to over-scheduling, over-involvement, and potentially causing anxiety, depression, and other mental health issues in children. Parents may put pressure on children to excel academically, participate in numerous extracurricular activities, or pursue specific career paths, often leading to a sense of stress and inadequacy.
At this point, I would like to make it clear that setting high expectations and working hard to help students achieve defined goals is our core business. Please don’t think for a moment that I am trying to say we shouldn’t set these expectations or encourage our girls to be the best they can be.
I asked AI to synthesise and generate a list of qualities from surveys and articles about what parents want for their child. This is what AI came up with:
- Happiness: This is often at the top of the list. Parents want their children to experience joy, contentment, and a general sense of wellbeing throughout their lives.
- Good Health: Physical and mental health are fundamental. Parents want their children to be strong, resilient, and free from significant illness or distress.
- Kindness and Empathy: The ability to understand and share the feelings of others, to be compassionate, and to act with kindness towards all people is highly valued.
- Resilience and Perseverance: Life has its challenges, and parents hope their children can bounce back from setbacks, learn from failures, and keep striving towards their goals.
- Confidence and Self-Esteem: A healthy belief in oneself and one's abilities is crucial for navigating social situations, pursuing interests, and facing new experiences.
- Integrity and Honesty: Parents want their children to be truthful, to have strong moral principles, and to act ethically, even when it's difficult.
- Curiosity and a Love for Learning: Fostering a natural desire to explore, ask questions, and continually acquire knowledge is seen as vital for growth and adaptation.
- Independence and Self-Sufficiency: The ability to think for oneself, make responsible decisions, and manage one's own life is a key developmental goal.
- Respect for Others: Understanding and valuing different perspectives, cultures, and individuals, regardless of their background, is a quality parents strive to instill.
- Strong Communication Skills: Being able to express thoughts and feelings clearly, listen actively, and engage in meaningful conversations is essential for all relationships.
- Creativity and Imagination: Encouraging innovative thinking, problem-solving, and the ability to express oneself uniquely is often desired.
- Responsibility: Taking ownership of one's actions and commitments, whether it's chores, homework, or personal choices.
- Adaptability: The capacity to adjust to new situations, embrace change, and learn new skills in an ever-evolving world.
- Gratitude: Appreciating what they have and the people in their lives, fostering a positive outlook.
- Sense of Purpose: Helping children discover their passions and find meaning in their lives, contributing positively to the world.
How do these align with your priorities?
The International Baccalaureate Learner Profile sits at the heart of all of our programmes at Tara. The Learner Profile attributes are: Inquirers, Knowledgeable, Thinkers, Communicators, Principled, Open-minded, Caring, Courageous, Balanced, and Reflective. I think you’ll agree that these sit nicely alongside the parent hopes listed above.
How many of these traits do you believe are helped by the application of pressure?
Do I know what amount of pressure is the perfect amount? No. This would also vary widely according to the child. What I do know is that there’s something inherently wrong with the way that many students felt as a result of the selective school and opportunity class testing. Do you have open and honest dialogue with your child about how she feels about the activities she does or the expectations you have of her? My aim, through this article, is to encourage you to reflect on how much pressure you are placing, directly or indirectly, on your child and to ask yourself, “Am I getting the balance right for my child?”
Tara Community News
Save The Date - Carols In The Colonnade
Our much-loved Carols in the Colonnade will be held on Saturday, 22 November 2025, from 4:00pm – 9:00pm.
This year, we are excited to once again include our vibrant Christmas Markets as part of the celebration.
We warmly invite members of the Tara community who own small businesses and would like to take part in the markets to contact Jodie Doyle at jdoyle@tara.nsw.edu.au.
Join us for an unforgettable evening of festive cheer, music, and community spirit.
Expressions of interest for the markets close at the end of Term 3 – Friday, 26 September 2025.
Tara Hub Community Gathering Invitation
Thank you to everyone who has already booked for the upcoming Tara Hub Community Gathering.
If you haven’t booked yet, there is still time. Event details are below.
On the evening, our Principal, Mrs Adele Ramsay, will present key findings from the recent parent survey and reveal the new Tara Master Plan—an inspiring vision for the future development of our campus over the next decade and beyond.
Event Details:
📅 Date: Tuesday, 26 August 2025
🕖 Time: 7:00pm
📍 Venue: Tara Chapel
📩 RSVP by: Monday, 25 August 2025
👉 RSVP here: Tara Hub Community Gathering - Tuesday 26 August
We look forward to welcoming you for an evening of valuable insights, exciting updates, and community connection.
Father's Day Breakfast - Book Now
We warmly invite all fathers and father figures to join us for a special Father’s Day Breakfast, celebrating the important role you play in your daughter’s life.
It’s the perfect opportunity to enjoy a relaxed morning together, connect with our School community and make lasting memories.
Event Details:
📅 Date: Monday, 8 September 2025
🕒 Time: 7:30am – 8:30am
📍 Venue: Main Oval
RSVP by: Tuesday, 2 September 2025
Booking here: https://www.trybooking.com/DEEJA
We look forward to sharing this special occasion with you.
Tara Dads Club - Community Meeting Invitation
All dads in our School community are warmly invited to attend the next Tara Dads Club meeting on Wednesday, 3 September at 6:00pm in the Glass Room (located next to the Uniform Shop).
If you are looking to connect with other dads, share experiences, and be part of a supportive community, we would love to see you there.
Come along and be part of the conversation.
Tara Alumnae
Alumnae Spotlight - Kaitlyn Grasso Class of 2024
Kaitlyn Grasso’s passion for cooking and baking was evident throughout her time at Tara Anglican School for Girls. She thrived in the School’s exceptional Food Technology and Hospitality department, choosing both subjects for her HSC. Kaitlyn extends heartfelt thanks to Mrs Cropper and Mrs Madigan for their unwavering support and dedication to her learning journey.
After graduating in 2024, Kaitlyn faced a flood of exciting opportunities. Ultimately, she followed her heart and accepted an offer from Le Cordon Bleu, a world-renowned French culinary and hospitality institution with campuses in 20 countries.
Following a tour and interview at Le Cordon Bleu, Kaitlyn was stunned to learn she had been awarded a $40,000 scholarship to study the Diplôme de Pâtisserie (Certificate III in Patisserie)—the first scholarship the institution had offered in over 20 years. This rare honour was a testament to her exceptional talent and passion.
Kaitlyn is loving every moment of the course, which blends theory and hands-on learning across three days each week. She has already created a variety of delicious pâtisseries, including apple fritters, citrus pound cakes, raspberry-filled choux pastry, and sticky rice pudding. She is inspired by the world-class chefs and grateful for the opportunity to learn from their expertise.
Kaitlyn also appreciates the flexibility of the course, which allows her to balance her studies with work commitments. She invites the Tara community to follow her culinary journey on Instagram at @kgs_kitchen, where she shares her latest creations and experiences.
“This journey has been incredible, and I truly believe I’ve chosen the right path. I’m so grateful to everyone who has supported me along the way.”
You are Invited - Tara Old Girls' Association Annual General Meeting
The Tara Old Girls’ Association warmly invites you to attend the upcoming Annual General Meeting on Tuesday, 19 August 2025 at 7:00pm, held in the Glass Room (located next to the Uniform Shop).
We are delighted to welcome Lauren Baikie, recipient of the 2024 Joan Waugh Award, as our special guest speaker. Lauren will share insights into how she has used her scholarship and what she has been working on since receiving the award—an evening not to be missed.
The meeting agenda and nomination forms are available on the Tara website, please use this link Community - Tara Anglican School for Girls
If you would like to attend, please RSVP via email to taraoldgirls@tara.nsw.edu.au.
We look forward to seeing you there.
Tara Aquatic Centre
Aquatic Centre News
We celebrated our 2nd Birthday on the 17 July 2025!
Reflecting on this past year fills us with joy as we’ve watched out program flourish and our students excel with every lesson!
Here’s to another year of thrilling progress and fun at Swimming@Tara!
On Friday 25 July 2025 it was World Prevention Drowning Day, a crucial time to highlight the importance of water safety and reducing preventable drowning deaths. At Tara, we prioritise safety through our learn-to-swim programs and biannual safety weeks, teaching vital swimming skills and water awareness. Did you know that nearly a quarter of a million people worldwide lose their lives to drowning each year and tragically, almost 82,000 of them are children. The early we get our children in the water and learning these essential skills the safer they will be around water!
Find out what's coming up in the Aquatic Centre, by clicking below:
Holiday Intensives for October 2025
We will be having Holiday Intensives over the October school holidays for 2 weeks. We will be offering Private Lessons and group lessons available. Please contact swimming@tara.nsw.edu.au or contact reception on 8838 2699 to book in.
Dates:
29/09 - 3/10 (5 days) &
7/10 - 10/10 (4 days)
Note: Our regular Learn to Swim lessons will continue during the holiday period.
Carnival Prep Program
Our Carnival Prep Program will be opening soon!
With carnival season fast approaching, our coach (Peter) is here to help you get race-ready and perform at your peak.
Dates:
Wednesday 1st October 7.30am - 9.30am
Friday 3rd October 7.30am - 9.30am
It will be offered to the following levels: Dolphin, Advance & Squad students only.
Swimmer of the Month:
We are so proud to announce that Jane is our Swimmer of the Month! For her dedication and commitment to her squad training!
Well Done, Jane!
Squad:
If you have a child or know someone who is at squad level, and are wanting to join Swimming@Tara squads, please email swimming@tara.nsw.edu.au so we can get them in for an assessment!
Lost Property:
We have a collection of lost property that has been left behind at the Aquatic Center. If you or your child have misplaced any items, please come down and check out lost property area.
Donation of swimming fins:
If you have outgrown or no longer needing your fins we are happy to take them in and they will be put to good use!
Super Star Squad Coach - Peter
Our squads at Tara Aquatic Centre are going from strength to strength—and much of that success is thanks to the leadership of our Squad Coach, Peter.
With over 45 years of coaching experience, Peter brings a wealth of knowledge to our Squad program. He holds an Advanced Silver License in coaching and has assisted coaching State and National swimmers to success.
He has also been Head Coach for the Special Olympics swim team, where he played a pivotal role in the development of athletes with special needs.
Since joining the team, he’s played a key role in developing our squad swimmers—helping them grow in technique, confidence and competitive focus. From building strong foundations to preparing swimmers for the next level, Peter’s influence is being felt across the pool.
We’re proud of how far our squads have come and excited for what’s ahead. 🎉
Junior School News
Playful Tales 2025
From the first line to the final bow, our Junior School girls from Years 3 to 6 brought energy and enthusiasm to every moment of Playful Tales. The audience was treated to four entertaining plays — The Most Epic Birthday Party, The Grunch, I’m an 11-Year-Old, Get Me Out of Here, and The Next Big Step.
Each production showcased the talent, creativity and commitment of our Junior School girls, who worked hard to bring their characters and stories to life. From comic timing to heartfelt moments, the performances reflected not only the students’ developing skills in drama, but also their teamwork and confidence on stage.
We extend our thanks to the Class Teachers for their guidance and encouragement, and to our Coordinator of Performance, Ms Mann, for leading the program and helping every student shine.
Playful Tales was a celebration of storytelling, collaboration and performance — and a wonderful reminder of the creativity and talent within our Junior School.
- Year 3
- Year 3
- Year 4
- Year 4
- Year 5
- Year 5
- Year 6
- Year 6
Through the Hedge Programs Inspire Creativity and Collaboration
Over the past two weeks, students from both Tara and The King's School have come together to participate in a range of activities that aim to build confidence, social skills and creativity.
The Year 5 students involved in Write A Book In A Day took part in an inspiring workshop with renowned author, Belinda Murrell. During the session, Belinda shared her expertise and offered valuable tips and tricks to help students develop their creative writing. From building rich characters to structuring engaging plots, the workshop provided practical skills that students can carry into their upcoming writing challenge.
Year 4 students came together to perform songs they have been learning together over recent weeks. The special assembly at Tara was a wonderful opportunity for students to share their music with an audience, showcasing not only their developing musical skills but also the connections and friendships built through this collaborative program.
These programs reflect the spirit of Through the Hedge—connecting students across schools, fostering creativity, and offering authentic opportunities to learn from and with others.
Read about what Year 3 got up to in the next article!
Year 3 Through the Hedge
Tara and King's Collaborate for a Creative Drama Encounter!
On Monday, 11th August, Year 3 students from Tara and The King's School came together for an engaging and energetic drama workshop experience. Led by a dynamic team from NIDA, the day was filled with laughter, imagination, and collaboration.
Read more about their fun morning, by clicking below
Throughout the morning, students rotated through hands-on workshops that explored a variety of drama techniques—from expressive movement to improvisation and character work. It was an opportunity for everyone to step outside their comfort zones, work as a team, and let their creativity shine.
By the end of the day, the rooms were buzzing with excitement, confidence, and a shared love for the arts. The experience not only deepened creative skills but also strengthened the special connection between Tara and King’s students. We look forward to many more opportunities for them to come together, connect, and grow—side by side and through the hedge.
Here is what some of our girls had to say!
“We did freeze frames; they were just like acting” - Stefeni
“We used our improvisation to make fun sounds” – Rachelle
“I liked hanging out with the King’s boys and finding out about their interests” – Olivia B
“They sure do play handball different to us!” -Ayat
It was a day of fun, learning, and building friendships
Senior School News
HSC Showcase 2025
National Geographic Competition Success
A huge congratulations to the 17 students who received High Distinctions—a remarkable accomplishment that reflects their dedication, curiosity, and love for learning.
Hannah Z | Year 7 |
Chloe L | Year 7 |
Joanna X | Year 7 |
Claire G | Year 8 |
Seona M | Year 8 |
Miraya S | Year 8 |
Alice S | Year 9 |
Shirin A | Year 10 |
Fiona H | Year 10 |
Christina H | Year 10 |
Agatha H | Year 10 |
Suhanya J | Year 10 |
Akshraa P | Year 10 |
Nicole W | Year 10 |
Allison Z | Year 10 |
Samantha L | Year 12 |
Carol S | Year 12 |
Year 10 Refugee Camp in my Neighbourhood Program
Last week, our Year 10 students visited the Refugee Camp in My Neighbourhood activation at the Whitlam Institute in Parramatta—an immersive, guided experience led by people with lived refugee or asylum-seeker backgrounds.
As students walked through simulated experiences of displacement—covering shelter, food, legal processes and life in camps—they were given a real-world insight into the challenges faced by millions around the world.
This experience helped build empathy, global awareness, and a deeper appreciation of the resilience of people from refugee backgrounds.
Here’s what some of the students had to say:
“It was a great way to build understanding and raise awareness in order to create a more accepting and diverse community.”
“It gave me gratitude for my life where I am safe.”
“It was confronting and was really eye-opening to things that really happen in the world. It also makes me feel much more grateful for the things I have and the area I live in.”
“It was heart-warming but sad to hear these unfortunate stories.”
We thank our students for engaging with the experience with maturity and openness—and we are grateful to the community voices who made this learning possible.
Gateway8 Academic Challenge
Last week, 16 students from the Year 7/8 and Year 9/10 teams showcased their skills at the Gateway8 Academic Challenge. Designed around Gardner’s theory of multiple intelligences, this dynamic competition encourages students to draw on a range of strengths including language, logic, creativity and interpersonal skills. Throughout the day, teams participated in a series of scored subject-based tasks in English, Science, Music, History, Mathematics and Creative Arts & Design, interspersed with varied activities to promote collaboration and problem-solving. It was an enjoyable and rewarding experience for the girls, with all teams performing well. The Year 9/10 team achieved excellent results, placing 2nd in Science, 2nd in History and equal second overall in the competition.
Global Connections: International Programs at Tara
At Tara, our international programs and exchange opportunities give students the chance to connect, learn, and grow through authentic cultural experiences. This term, we were fortunate to welcome students from both Tosajuku, Japan, and St. Swithun’s, England, into our community.
Our visitors from Tosajuku participated in everyday School life, joined a Year 8 Japanese class, and treated us to a wonderful performance during our Obento Lunch. They also explored some of Sydney’s iconic sights, experiencing the culture and beauty of our city. We now look forward to sending a group of our own students to visit Tosajuku during the upcoming holidays, where they will experience Japanese culture and school life firsthand.
As part of our cultural exchange program with St. Swithun’s, three students from England stayed with host families in our community. Their Australian adventure included viewing the Sydney Harbour Bridge, visiting our stunning beaches, and even snorkelling on the Great Barrier Reef. Our Tara girls enjoyed welcoming them into their lives—both at home and at school—and are excited to reunite with their exchange partners when they visit St. Swithun’s next term.
International programs like these are an important part of a Tara education, helping our students to develop independence, global understanding, and lasting friendships that stretch across the world.
Sydney Eisteddfod Results


Sport News
Fantastic Dance Results


Arndell Equestrian Carnival
Chloe (Year 7) had a great day at competing at Arndell's Equestrian Carnival in Open Show Horse Ring.
She received:
3rd - Best Presented
2nd - Handler
Reserve Champion Show Horse
We congratulate Chloe for her outstanding results!
Careers News
Careers Newsletter
There are some great events and opportunities coming up! Learn more about them via the links below.
Careers Newsletter for 18 August 2025
For more information please contact Mr David Berridge via email - dberridge@tara.nsw.edu.au